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Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Pharaoh's Daughter

As promised and with permission from the author, here is the first installment of the stories that were told at our Women’s Inspirational Day, May 1, 2010.


Charlotte Siemens telling her story.
Imagine with me waking up and going to sleep with the cries and wailing of mothers; in this story Hebrew mothers lamenting the loss of life, howling bringing children into the world and soon after watching them being taken away. Pharaoh’s daughter – a woman hears these cries, perhaps wishing to get them out of her memory, wishing to live her regular, regal life with no interference, and yet hearing the endless cries, no doubt knowing full well that her father was involved in the slaughterings. She goes to the river to bathe, like every day in her seeming well- life. She is at the river ready to bathe, a royal princess. What we have in this story is: The love of a birth mother for her child, the love of an adoptive mother for the baby; the love of a sister for her baby brother. I too am the adoptive mother of two boys, and know the depths of a mother’s love for a child, regardless of whether or not she gave birth to that child. Our children came not in baskets floating down a river, but as 1 ½ year olds learning how to walk.
Our Biblical Model is Janet Davies.
The fashion commentator is Cyndy Brandt
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Our Biblical story occurs during a time of intense racial prejudice towards the Hebrews, slaves to Pharaoh. Pharaoh’s daughter reached across racial and religious barriers to show compassion to a child. Although our children I hope are not surrounded by racial prejudice, our children are Nicaraguan, and so ours too is a cross-cultural adoption, which can bring with it added challenges, and possibly added adventure (it gives us a great excuse to travel to Central America regularly).
As you recall this story in Exodus 2:1-10, and as I have told the story, have you noticed that one "character" has not been mentioned? Nowhere in the text do we find God named. And yet everywhere we cannot help but think of God. We do not always know or understand how God works in the world But it is obvious here that God is somehow at work in the actions of these three women. The story is told in very low-key terms. There are not yet astounding miracles to wow us. Those will come later in the story of Moses. Yet the message here is that God sometimes works behind the scenes in the courageous actions of mothers, in the love of sisters, and in the compassion of a tyrant’s daughter! In this story, there is simply the faithfulness of ordinary people who live their lives under God.
So in a real sense, this is a story about the surprising and unimaginable faithfulness of God in the midst of ordinary human living. We were blessed with two boys, through adoption. On Carlos’ adoption notice it states: Placed into our lives, born into our heart. Little baby Moses was also placed into Pharaoh’s daughters’ life, and I truly believe was born into her heart.
I can imagine the anguish of Moses’ mother as she prayerfully lays her baby boy in a basket. I believe the birth mothers of our boys also brought them to safety, bringing them to the hospital or the orphanage praying that they would be alright. Was God at work? I like to think so – I am not garbed with finery, but pray I am garbed with grace and compassion. God works with ordinary people, with Moses’ determined mother, with a daring sister, and a compassionate daughter of Pharaoh. Our boys stretch me as a mother, as a woman, as a Christian. I have learned much about forgiveness, about endless ongoing love through difficult times, about laughter, about deep joy, about God’s incredible faithfulness.
God works through folks like you, through folks like me. God is faithful to and through us!
Physically, Pharaoh’s daughter, is garbed in royal clothes; emotionally she is garbed with grace. In our Biblical story, three women – three heroes. Gathering as women today: birth mothers, perhaps some other adoptive mothers, sisters and perhaps even a few regal princesses in the crowd. All of us: garbed in God’s grace, wrapped in God’s compassion.

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Garbed in God's Grace ! ! !

Inspirational Day 2010!

Saturday, May 1st at Emmanuel Mennonite Church in Abbotsford.

The day started of with sunshine and with expectations of seeing old and new friends.
The decorations were ready and waiting for the women to arrive.
The tables for the meal were beautifully set and each of them had an angel as a centerpiece. Each one different and beautiful. They even came from different ethnic groups!


The women always make the most of the visiting opportunities
and registration line-ups is one of those, orrrrr.........

....waiting for the program to begin! ! !

Our event was well attended - - - 186 women in total.
Some came only for the program but most stayed for the meal fellowship as well.

Marlene Friesen (EMC) lighting the candles in memory of our sisters that went home,
to be with our Lord, since our last Inspirational Day in Kelowna 2009.
We had received 23 names from our MCBC
Congregations.
The Memorial time was led by Vanj Thiessen (E
MC).
I will post her inspiring thoughts in a day or two.
(Have to keep you all coming back to this site! :-))


Every Life has a Story!
To introduce our main topic, we first had 3 testimonies from sisters that
experienced the Grace of God in a very real and tangible way.

1. Lot's Wife - Not looking back!

2. Pharaoh's daughter - a mother through adoption!

3. Ruth - caring for an aging mother-in-law!

(Some of these stories will also be posted in the coming weeks.)

Our guest speaker, Jeanette Hanson, MC Canada Witness Worker in China,
pulling it all together in her speech about how each of us is
"Garbed in God's Grace" based on Ephesians 3:7

Enjoying a yummy meal together and having fun while doing so...
by guessing who our Biblical visitor were.

Promoting our Fall Women's Retreat at Camp Squeah - October 15 - 17!
Our special guests at the retreat will be Feather Janz (right side and sitting)
and singer Lisa Adrianne (also sitting)

These were our Biblical guests, can you guess who they were?

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Allow me!

Received this nice little write up from Mennonite Women Canada president, Erna Neufeldt.
She asked that I post this on our blog site. She sent the picture as well!

Flowering pear tree!

Spring flowers,

new growth,

and new initiatives

in British Columbia (BC)

Congratulations Waltrude and women of Mennonite Church British Columbia (MC BC)

Mennonite Women Canada (MW Canada) is very pleased to have a representative from BC on our Executive again. This results from the creation of a Women’s Ministry by MC BC chaired by Waltrude Gortzen.

Waltrude has been a guest at our Executive meetings for the past 2 years. We have learned to appreciate her enthusiasm for the Christian sisterhood, her energy and her sense of humour.

I look forward to meeting as many of you as can come to the MW Canada Annual Meeting and Workshop July 1, 12:30 at Ambrose University College in Calgary, the site of Mennonite Church Canada’s Annual Assembly. For your information you need to register for this meeting in order to get a meal ticket.

Blessings,

Erna Neufeldt, President,

Mennonite Women Canada

Email: neufeldte@yahoo.com

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Checking in ! ! !

I know that there are probably some of you out there that are waiting and wondering where the "Inspirational Day" update is, right?

I am working on it and will post pictures and a write up and a few days.
Have just not had the energy to do anything. Came down with a nasty bug and have been dealing with that for the last 2 weeks.

After the Inspirational Day was over and we had our debrief meeting and everything was more or less done, I guess that I just "crashed and burned" as Janette Thiessen at the MCBC Office described it! :-)

I am feeling a lot better and will be back to normal in a few days, I'm sure!

In the mean time, you ladies need something to read right?
Well, check out this link:
http://www2.canada.com/courierislander/news/story.html?id=e8819361-7942-4e7b-a8f9-84303dae1c84

The story you will find there is about one of our MCBC Women. Some of you will already have met her, either in your own church or at our annual ladies retreat at Camp Squeah!.

Enjoy!

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

For real?

I've been stuck at home today trying to shake a fever and aches and feeling bored this afternoon, I followed up on a news report I heard on the radio about a house on the Winnipeg market with a record asking price. Here's part of the description from the MLS website: "From the sweeping suspended staircase and sumptuous main flr Master to the stunning infinity pool-this home IMPRESSES! 13,200 sq ft raised bung w/2nd storey & walkout overlooking a magnificent back yard development & panoramic lake views. 5 Bedrooms & 9baths. Elevator access to all flrs. You'll be wowed w/the amazing huge windows, beautiful wide plank oak flrs,custom mill-work  limestone accents,Great rm 24 ft ceiling lamp; THE ULTIMATE GOURMET KITCHEN. The dinning room has a remarkable wet bar w/onyx counter & onyx back lit wall panels..." And it goes on. Also, potential buyers are assured that the house has a "state of the art" security system with 24/7 360 degree video surveillance. If this is a "dream house" do our dreams make sense? And if we need to protect our property with 24/7 360 degree video surveillance is that really a dream come true?

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Spring and stuff collide!

Perhaps I've finally caught the spring cleaning bug? There is something about the warm breeze and sunshine streaming through my dirty windows that makes me long to scrub and clean all the winter grunge out of my home.

(You must understand that I've rarely, if ever, had this urge - I run outside from spring to fall, merrily ignoring all but required house cleaning until I'm confined to the house again come winter. I don't really enjoy house cleaning or get great satisfaction from a gleaming floor. Defective genes I guess!)

But first, I have to get rid of the stuff that has collected! We have a couple extra dressers that have a place but aren't really needed, some clothes that will head to a thrift shop someday soon, a few books that someone else might enjoy. It's all good stuff and it all has a use but it's quickly becoming clutter in my house.

How do I get all this stuff? Why do I hesitate to let it go? Will I really use this stuff some day? Why am I still asking that question after this stuff has sat around for a couple years? Why is it so hard to deal with stuff?

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

This and That!

Happy Easter Everyone!!! Thank God for letting His one and only son, Jesus die on the cross for our sins!!! We are free because of this! Praise the Lord!!!

At our ladies Bible study we just finished a Beth Moore study on The Patriarchs :) I found it fascinating since I am newer to going to church and reading more serious! We are going to do another one soon!

Melinda M, her husband Jason, their son Gilford and their daughter MacKenzi; from our United Mennonite Church in Black Creek, welcomed their new son/brother, Hudson Thomas to the world on March 31st around 5:30pm at 8lbs 10oz!!! Congrats and blessings!

On my last posting we were on our way to our Annual General Meeting and with prayers it went really well! It was even done by lunch time :) lol

We must continue to pray for the World with the mine cave-ins, earthquakes, tornadoes...Everything that Satan has is being thrown at the World and we need to be putting our armour on every day! Thank God that we know where we're going when it's time, but continue to spread God's Word and praying for those who still need to be saved! Never give up, never forsake! You never know when that little seed of knowledge that you have planted may take root!!!!

Inspirational Day! ! !


Would love to see everyone there!
It will be a great day!

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

The dawn may take some time

Last night I posted on Facebook that there is a big hole on the street and a deep trench through my front yard where work is going on to connect water and sewer to the new house we're building. I added: "I guess it's progress that things get torn apart to get put back together." One of my friends commented, "Sounds theological to me!" I hadn't really meant it in that way but it is a week that we Christians contemplate things torn apart before they are put back together - that death comes before resurrection.

I'm sad this week that things are torn apart in my friend Carla's family - Carla's big sister Eileen died last week, too soon we would say. I think of the gaping hole in my yard and know that the piles of dirt will fill it up again either today or tomorrow - but I know that it will take longer to put things together for Carla and her family. We need to walk tenderly with those who grieve without rushing them to the Resurrection. The dawn that emerges from this darkness takes time but we can be hopeful. We can hope because the One who walked the path to the cross walks with those for whom things are torn apart.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

21 Days

A friend recently shared the sermon message at her church. The pastor challenged the congregation to consider how their lives might be different if they knew they only had 21 days to live. It made me think. What would change in my life if I knew I only had 21 days? Would I stop doing some things? Would I start doing other things? How would I relate to my family? Friends? Colleagues?

I've been mulling this over for a few days and here's what I've come up with: I would get up earlier and enjoy sunrises that I rarely see. I would stop and enjoy sunsets that I miss by being busy with other things. I would thank God for the many gifts He has given me. I would bless others with the money and possessions that I would no longer need. I would make sure my nephew knew that blowing bubbles is a simple thing that makes nearly everyone smile. And I would make rhubarb pie for my husband.

What about you? What would your 21 days look like?

Friday, March 5, 2010

ATM

I'm using a devotional book for Lent called, "There's no ATM in the Wilderness." The reflections are written by a variety of people who are active in the United Church of Canada. There is a Scripture passage, a reflection, a prayer and ideas for journalling or action. Last night's text was from Mark 12, especially the first part of verse 17: "Jesus said to them, 'Give to the emperor the things that are the emperor's, and to God the things that are God's'" One suggestion in the journal reflection part caught my attention: "John Wesley suggested praying before spending money. What if, every time you spent money, you simply asked the question: Remembering it's not really mine, is this how I want to spend God's money?" Something to ponder.

Saturday, February 20, 2010

A Bright Sunny Morning!

Good morning everyone!!!! My name is Mary and I am from the United Mennonite Church in Black Creek :) It has taken me a bit to get on here but I've gotten my act together, well, a little bit, hee hee, and signed on up. My husband and I (and my mom) are on our way to Church for our Annual General Meeting today that will be full of information and of course elections...now that will be interesting! lol Cal, my husband, and I have been married for almost 14 years (I'm 37 yrs). I just wanted to take this opportunity to introduce myself, and also ask for prayer for our Church as we go into our AGM :) I will be doing some more blogs with poems, thoughts, prayers, and such as time goes on! Thank you and God bless!!!!!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Giving Up or Adding On?

I was chatting over lunch the other day with a young woman I know. She and her husband have been married a few years and have faithfully given up something during the Lenten season. Chocolate, coffee, going out for restaurant meals and movies, that sort of thing. She said that this year they had been kicking around ideas. TV maybe? They didn't watch it much anyways. Restaurants? Done that already. Ditto chocolate and coffee. What to give up that would be significant and a sacrifice?

Then inspiration hit. What if, instead of giving something up, they added something on? 40 days of something extra? She's going to run outside daily. He is going to walk the 1.5 km to and from work. Normally going to work means using the ATV or car but for Lent, he will walk both ways. February and March in southern Ontario are still firmly in winters grip. It’s below zero with snow and ice covering the ground. Green grass and flowers won’t be seen until April normally. Committing to run or walk daily is not for the faint of heart.

I'm impressed by their determination and creativity to honour Lent and the idea of sacrifice. As for me, I haven't firmly decided yet. What about you?

Friday, February 5, 2010

Another perspective on Giving Thanks

I went out for coffee with my friend Willard yesterday afternoon. Because Willard lives in Ontario, we don’t see each other often and this was the first time we meet in person after he experienced the earthquake in Port-Au-Prince, Haiti last month. Willard works for World Vision Canada and was on a partnership tour with church leaders from Atlantic Canada in Haiti. The hotel in which they were staying was damaged but they were not injured. Because someone at the hotel had some emergency medical training in their background, word went out that there was a doctor at the hotel and Willard and his colleagues were faced with streams of injured people coming to them for help. They tore lots of bedsheets to make bandages but Willard said in email that it was such a helpless feeling to face such an overwhelming need to which he could not fully respond.

I’ve known for a long time that Willard is a person of generous heart and spirit. He feels experiences deeply and reaches out in whatever ways he can to help. Over the years as a pastor, and now working for World Vision, he has done mission trips to many places of incredible need. The impact of these trips led him to produce a small volume of table graces for World Vision called “Thanking God with Integrity: Table Grace in a world of hunger.” He writes in the introduction, “when sensitized to the global inequity concerning access to food, simply thanking God for ‘our’ food feels terribly inadequate.” Acknowledging this, Willard has written these prayers to express thankfulness in light of a celebration of response and purpose.
Here is one of the prayers from his book:

Lord grant that we may eat this food in peace;
guarded from guilt and protected from shame.
Cause this food to become nutrients that
feed the spirit of generosity and sustains a life of service.
Then, Oh Lord, we receive this food not only in peace
but in true worship.
Amen.

What do you think about giving thanks?

Welcome new MFC staff in Abbotsford!

For those of you who live in or around Abbotsford, I just want you to know that Mennonite Foundation of Canada has new staff in the Abbotsford office. Arnie Friesen is the new Stewardship Consultant and Irm Nickel is the new Admin Assistant. MFC is all about helping congregations and individuals connect faith and finances and offers good resources for will and estate planning, charitable gift planning and financial literacy from a Christian perspective. Unfortunately, Arnie & Irm are working in the midst of drywall dust as the MFC office in the Golden Age Society building is renovated but I'm sure they would be happy to meet any of you who drop by!

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Yippeeeeee! Number 4 ! ! !

I am so excited!
We have another lady joining us!

Now we'll see who will be the first to post something.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Number 3 ! ! !

We have a third contributor that has agreed to keep us reading and coming back to visit this blog.
Again, I am not telling you who she and will allow her to intoduce herself to us!
You will just have to stay tuned! :-)
"As each has received a gift, employ it for one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace." 1 Peter 4:10